Archive for May, 2016

Is present EU Socialism like past Germany’s National Socialism?

May 18, 2016

“European Council President Donald Tusk said that former London mayor Boris Johnson had “crossed a red line” when he compared the EU to Adolf Hitler in comments made earlier this week.”  As a social psychologist, let me clear up the confusion here. The EU cannot be like the Nazis but it may be on the same coin if you flip it over from “heads” to “Tails.”  Think of it as a perfect circle where the 2 ends almost meet. One end is called the extreme right and the other end is called the extreme left. Take the EU end a notch or two away from the extreme left into the area on the circle that you would call EU Socialism and you would find some commonality with National Socialism in the area of authoritarian behavior!

Translating my analysis to behavior, the angry right attacks you physically while the worried left attacks you mentally. Sure, the difference between the Gulag and the concentration camp is a matter of life or death, but some people may consider the difference between death and brain washing also like the difference between life and death. I will always prefer responsible democracy to Socialism, Communism or Fascism!

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The psychological reason Obama appease Iran and rebuff Saudi Arabia.

May 13, 2016

“From the outset of his presidency, Obama’s aim was to get close to Shia Iran while ending the US’s closeness with Saudi Arabia.” He was a black community organizer in Chicago who got catapulted to the presidency of the United States.

His father was a Sunni Kenyan who left Obama’s mom when Obama was a child and then left Earth in a car accident when Obama was only 20. Two bad experiences. His mom remarried a Sunni man who wasn’t a good loving step father to Obama as a teenager after his natural father left. Later on, growing up and getting married in a church run by a America hating preecher wasn’t helpful, and remembering the 19 Sunnis who killed 3000 Americans in 911 wasn’t endearing either.

As president Obama’s personality became more anti Sunni than anti Shia, after all Shia Iran only kidnapped 400 Americans and eventually released them. Let’s hope that our next president will be a little more balanced!

What to do when your friend does something you don’t like?

May 9, 2016

One of the reasons I became a psychologist besides my desire to make more money than my dad, was my desire to avoid and “fix” difficult situations with family members or friends. I dreaded living a life of quiet desperation as poet Thorough would say. For many years of practicing psychology, counseling and teaching I enjoyed being an island of Joy in a sea of human social discomfort. I brought it up this morning to benefit those of you who want peace. I just dismissed a friend for good!

I will not mention names and I will not describe the problem behavior because the problems are generic and universal, applicable to most situations, let’s us say that you want him/her out of your life. Specifically, What is the best way to behave when that person you befriended and expected fun started to behave in a way that generated resentment in you and conflicting thoughts. The unacceptable behavior “hooked your mind” on it and you did not like or approve it to the point that you want him/her to leave permanently!

  1. Make sure you really don’t want him/her around anymore.
  2. Be polite, assertive and short, say please, and find a neutral sentence, don’t tell your truth!
  3. Great sentences are: “Please leave, it’s time for you to go.” Repeat the sentence if necessary, don’t explain when they ask Why? You may say “It’s my final decision, thank you for going, I wish you the best.” “Please respect my desire for peace.”  ” Thank you for leaving.”  “I insist on having my privacy back. Respect my wishes.”  The things not to do is get physical or critical or explaining, etc. Focus on your need only! Don’t make the other person feel guilty, having less self-esteem, rejected, “it’s time to go” is a great closure. “I need my privacy” is great too. Don’t open up a possibility of staying or returning. Be resolute with your voice, repeat, be on the cool side, not warm, I know, it’s the art of salesperson! “Time to depart,” is good too. I think you got it, don’t drag it on. the worse you can do when they ask Why? is to tell them, they will disagree and react and all hell will get loose…

God!

May 5, 2016

The “big bang” happened 40 billion years ago. Earth was born 5 billion years ago. What came out at the point of Singularity is a flow of love energy, including sexual love energy. This fact is well documented. The two forms of love energy that came out at the point of singularity each had their own consciousness with its own veracity (truth) and purposiveness (mission). Dr. Leibnitz (1648 AD), the founder of mathematic calculus called these units of consciousness Monads. The Monads formed what Dr. Hawking called “Strings.”  Strings coalesce to form “Higgs particles” or photons that became neutrinos or what parapsychologists call “psitrons.” (cognitive units).  Low Monads are newly self formed and they start their life being subsumed into matter by the Higgs’ particles as catalyst. Most of the “low Monads” float in the universal space as “dark Matter” which is a misnomer. Old Monads (recycled) stay in a pure state. Humans exist only in some planets seeded by aliens. A small portion of old Monads enter the human brain frontal lobe through the pineal gland and the Ley lines and form the soul or the “God portion within.” Your ability to love and communicate with your soul determine your happiness, health and wealth. God is being “born” with each new Universe every 100 billion years. As soon as this truth about the soul is known and accepted planet earth would be a great planet to live on. Meantime, any person who loves his inner consciousness will be transformed!